Tag Archives: facebook

Hey darlings!

Just in case you haven’t liked my new-ish Facebook page, Last Page on the Left, here is the link again!

http://www.facebook.com/lastpageontheleft

Thanks again for all the support and love! <3

Write again perhaps later today!!


Since I am constantly bitching and getting confused about online communication, I thought I’d make a little post about what we can all do to improve our communication, and thus avoid confrontation, arguments, and misunderstandings. Seeing as how the only way we communicate theses days seems to be online (for the majority of the time, don’t deny it), it is important that we reestablish the lines of communications and the etiquette (or not) with which we employ it. Let’s get right to it!

1. If you are being funny or sarcastic, always use a silly emoticon, or use the phrases: “LOL”, “Psshh…”, “LMAO”, or “Haha”. These can be interchangeable and really prevent unnecessary misunderstandings and keeps the conversation flowing at a good pace, without one having to stop and question what something meant or how it was actually meant to sound. Do this in the first place, and you won’t be told “Uhh, gee thanks?” or “WTF asshole!”

2. Check your status! Are you online or not? Green light, for instance, on Facebook denotes that you are online. Don’t be a forgetful douchebag and forget to turn off your online status. People will message you, and get angry that you are not responding. Simple common courtesy that is not too common. You’ll find most of this post will contain common sense techniques!

3. Do not leave a conversation right in the middle of it, and do not leave without saying you’re doing so. This is simply rude, whether you’re online, in person, or on the phone. Barring a real emergency or power outage, there is NO excuse for this rude ass behavior. Man (or woman) the fuck up and let someone know something. There’s nothing I hate more than when someone just up and stops speaking like you’re boring them, and then later they come back like, “Whaaa? What’s wrong?” What’s wrong? You’re being a dick unnecessarily, so STOP.

4. On Facebook in particular, don’t read someone’s message, then ignore it. It shows with a checkmark that you have read it. If you “can’t write back at this moment”, then why are you fucking checking it in the first place? Makes no sense. And if you’re that busy, stop commenting on pictures of naked women and responding to other people while ignoring me. I can see that shit too, you know. Quit being rude, and if you’re that busy, don’t check the message period. It will save you unnecessary strife, and I won’t have to get pissed off. It’s a win-win. Nothing I hate more than being purposefully ignored. Don’t want to talk to me? Then why are we friends?

These are just a few suggestions on how to improve online communication with me and others. Because I can assure you, others are bothered with these issue too – I’m just the one to make it loud and public. Someone’s got to speak up about rudeness in ANY format or method of communication. Just don’t be rude! Like I said, unless your wife/husband, kid, or pet is dying, your house is on fire, or you’re being robbed, don’t be douchebag-like and just forget etiquette. Because regardless of the method or manner, it shows your true colors. Oh, and don’t be one of those people who will only talk to someone when they need something. Rude.

Thank you for reading, as always! :)


On MySpace, we were ranked in order of importance on our friends’ Top 8. It later became (up to) a Top 16, and people at least felt a little more included. But if you weren’t even good enough to be #16, it lowered your self-esteem. Admit it, it did. Particularly if it were someone you THOUGHT you were important to. Now, on Facebook, we get the instant update newsfeed, as well as a feature that tells a person when someone has read a message we’ve sent them. Both of these cause nothing but trouble, but also reveal your level of importance, which I guess is, in effect, nothing but trouble, like I said. You’ll message someone, and they’ve read it, but you think maybe they’re just busy or something, and then suddenly, you’ll see them pop up on the newsfeed, talking to someone else, and you think, well fuck, thanks for ignoring me! You’d think people would get this by now, but we can SEE when you’re blowing us off! To some, this may not be a big deal, but it’s rude. I don’t care if you’re in public, on the phone, at work, or online, RUDE is RUDE. Period.

This leads people, overanalyzers like me mostly, to question what you’ve said, how you’ve said it, how they might have interpreted it, or if they’ve just been talking to you at all just to shut you up. This causes problems! How hard is it to say, “I gotta go, later”, or “I’m busy right now, TTYL”, or even, I don’t know, just RESPOND like a normal human? Don’t people realize that in this day and age, rightly or wrongly, we can all see when we’re being ignored? This is a version of walking all over someone. You talk to them sometimes, and other times, it’s as if they don’t even exist. But the other person acts like everything is just peachy. Well, it’s NOT! Or even worse, they lie right to you, “I wasn’t online”, “I was asleep”. Ha, okay, I guess someone who acts just like you hacked your page as soon as I messaged you? Riiiiiiiight. How are you supposed to tell someone that even the little things like this are hurtful, and can build up to even bigger problems? AHHHHHH! Social networking is driving me insane!

I know I sound a little ridiculous, but if you knew how long this had been building up in me and how crazy my life has been lately, you’d totally understand. I liked it better before, when we didn’t know when our messages were seen. This wouldn’t bother me as much if this wasn’t today’s society’s primary method of communication – but it is! Everything revolves around Facebook these days, and while I tolerate it more today than a year or so ago, it still drives me crazy to blatantly see that I’m being purposely ignored. If you knew me, you’d know that is my BIGGEST pet peeve. Ever. I don’t think I ask for too much. More on this subject sure to come shortly.



Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 171 other followers

%d bloggers like this: